Toi et moi ring with lab-grown diamond

A toi et moi ring combines two diamonds in one ring and is available at Vondel Diamonds with lab-grown diamonds in 18K gold or platinum. Each stone meets the highest quality standards and is IGI-certified.

• Stone quality: D to F color, VVS to VS clarity, Triple Excellent cut

• Available in 18K white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, platinum, and 14K variants

• Full customization possible through our free Custom Design service

• Boutique in Amsterdam open daily from 11:00 to 17:30

A toi et moi ring carries two diamonds that form a single entity. At Vondel Diamonds, you'll find this romantic ring style with lab-grown diamonds (real diamonds, grown in a laboratory using the advanced CVD method) in 18K gold or platinum. Each ring is handcrafted and available as a collection piece or as a fully custom-made piece of jewelry through our Custom Design service. A good example from the collection: the Rosalie, a toi et moi ring with an emerald and a pear, beautifully showcasing the interplay of angular and fluid shapes.

The toi et moi collection at Vondel Diamonds

The special thing about a toi et moi ring is the interaction between two diamonds. In our collection, we deliberately combine different cuts to make that contrast visible. Think of an emerald next to a pear, or an oval next to a round brilliant. This combination of angular and fluid lines gives each ring its own character.

All diamonds in the collection meet the same quality standards: D to F in color, VVS to VS in clarity, and a Triple Excellent cut (the highest score for proportions, symmetry, and finish). This applies to both stones in the ring, regardless of the cut. Especially with a toi et moi, this consistent quality between the two diamonds is visible: differences in brightness or color stand out when the stones are placed directly next to each other. Stones above 1.00 ct are supplied with an individual IGI certificate.

Choosing stone combinations for a toi et moi ring

The strength of a toi et moi ring lies in its combination. A good rule of thumb: choose two cuts that visually contrast (round versus angular) or share the same length-to-width ratio. Contrast creates tension and movement, while harmony brings tranquility. This rule will guide you far in putting together a toi et moi lab-grown ring that suits you.

Popular combinations at Vondel Diamonds:

• Emerald and pear: angular next to fluid, one of the most chosen duos

• Oval and round brilliant: subtle contrast with maximum sparkle

• Cushion and marquise: soft and distinctive in one ring

Choose your cuts based on what you find beautiful on your hand. An elongated stone like a marquise or pear visually lengthens the finger, while a round or cushion stone adds width. In the boutique, we place different combinations side by side so you can see the difference directly.

Materials and finish

Every toi et moi ring is available in 18K white gold, 18K yellow gold, 18K rose gold, and platinum. 14K variants are also possible. The metal influences how the diamonds appear: white gold and platinum emphasize the clarity of the stones, yellow gold adds warmth, and rose gold gives a contemporary, soft glow.

All rings are crafted in solid gold or platinum. Vondel Diamonds does not work with plated or gilded materials.

Customization without extra costs

Is your ideal combination not in the collection? Through our Custom Design service, you can design a completely personalized toi et moi ring together with our team. Submit your wishes via the contact form, receive a free 3D design, and a no-obligation quote. There are no additional costs for custom work.

You choose the cuts, the carat weight per stone, the metal, and the band style. Because Vondel Diamonds works directly with diamond laboratories worldwide, without intermediaries, you have access to a wide selection of stones that are not available everywhere. For some partners, Vondel Diamonds has exclusive rights within the Benelux.

View or design a Toi et Moi ring

Want to know which combination suits you best? Contact us via WhatsApp, email, or schedule a visit to our boutique on Hobbemastraat in Amsterdam via the appointment planner: https://www.vondel.com/products/book-appointment. We are open every day from 11:00 to 17:30, even without an appointment.

Whether you choose a toi et moi ring from the collection or have a custom design made: at Vondel Diamonds, it's all about two stones that together tell a personal story. View the collection online or visit us in Amsterdam for personal advice.

Frequently asked questions

How do I choose the right stone combination for a toi et moi ring?

Consider the contrast you desire. Two identical shapes create serenity, while two different shapes add character. Combine a round with an angular cut for visual tension. In our boutique in Amsterdam, we lay out combinations side by side so you can compare them directly.

Which cuts are available for a toi et moi ring?

Through our Custom Design service, you can choose any cut yourself: round brilliant, oval, emerald, pear, cushion, or marquise. The 3D design and quote are free and without obligation. In the collection, popular duos like emerald with pear are readily available.

Are toi et moi rings available in platinum?

Yes. All toi et moi rings are available in 18K white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, and platinum. 14K variants are also possible. All materials are solid gold or platinum, never plated.

How long is the delivery time for a toi et moi ring?

Collection pieces are generally delivered within two to three weeks. For custom work via the Custom Design service, allow three to five weeks, depending on the complexity of the design.

What is the difference between a lab-grown diamond and a mined diamond in a toi et moi ring?

Lab-grown diamonds are chemically, physically, and optically identical to mined diamonds. They are grown using the CVD method and are conflict-free and mining-free. At Vondel Diamonds, all lab-grown diamonds meet the same strict quality standards: D to F color, VVS to VS clarity, Triple Excellent cut.